Online Safety: Fear of preditors or rules to support freedom of expression!

Being comfortable with technology, I have always been a proponent of teaching and encouraging an online experience.  It was only through scare sessions by the county prosecuter that I heard parents gasp at the possible dangers that their children might encounter while online.  These were parents who possibly also feared the internet due to lack of knowledge and comfort in using a computer.

My reasons for promoting Online Safety was to educate parents into talking with their kids and teaching them the best way possible to be online and be secure about that experience.  Anne Collier, creator of, states a compelling argument to changing the way we approach online safety.  See her blog and news article at

Maybe the wave of ‘Predator Dangers…’ are slowing down due to the large scale scare campaign set forth by law enforcement, teachers, technology supporters and concerned parents. Kids are all too aware of the issues of meeting with strangers they talk to online.  As can be seen by the prominent role of social network sites in the US’s latest presidential election (see just-released Pew/Internet research) – it has clearly become an important tool of participatory democracy and, as such, we need to embrace the social media our children have at their disposal.

The NetFamily News article talks about the need to include social media as a part of citizenship and media literacy education in school (to remain relevant to social media’s most fluent practitioners – teens – schools cannot afford to discourage or block social media’s use).  She speaks about how our Online Safety education should be meaningful to kids in school and not just about banning social media sites.  Online Safety discussions should be about a healthy participation in social media and the freedom of expression and civic engagement through social technologies and media. She quotes,

“Digital citizenship is the new online safety!”

Educator and author Will Richardson says educators should encourage students to create, navigate, and grow the powerful, individualized networks of learning on the Web and helping them do this effectively, ethically, and safely.

Should the new dinner table discussions now bring up online media, in addition to the newspaper and TV news and encourage our children to talk about what they have read or posted on the web?  In many ways they are writers and publishers in their own right.

What should parents do to prevent kids from Sexting! and being convicted of a crime!

Law enforcement is now so fed up with the posting of nude and provocative pictures of minors on the web they are taking the issue into their own hands.  Someone posting underage pics of kids exposing themselves can now be charged with a sex crime and then be subjected to having their name posted on the sex offenders list.

NOT something we want our children subjected to BUT we as parents, must take responsibility of what our children are doing on the web.  We need to engage them in discussions about who they are friends with on the internet and what they actually publish on the web.  Children do not think about the permanence of web publishing or who will ever see this information.  Google your childs name and show them how easy it can be to find them on the web.  Tell them colleges and future employers can easily find a history of their actions.  These images sometimes NEVER can be removed and will last a lifetime.

According to Parry Aftab, (an Internet privacy and security lawyer and is WiredSafety’s Executive Director)
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Judge Thomas O’Malley of Cleveland “Gets it”.  He didn’t prosecute teens convicted of distributing pornographic pics of underaged kids but educated them by assigning community service. He assigned each to gather info from 25 other teens about their activities of sending, viewing and creating pornography and if they knew these were criminal offenses.

What are you doing to educate your kids…….

Welcome to the KidSafe Online Blog!

The KidSafe Online Blog is here to add discussions about what you can do to keep your family safe while on the web.   My name is Gayle Ostic and I want to use this forum to keep you up-to-date about the latest concerns and solutions to web safety.  I can also answer questions and open up discussions about what any of you think about a certain topic.

Ex: To MONITOR or NOT to MONITOR – Tell your kids they are monitored or keep it undetected

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